From Ms to Mrs: Our Gatecrash Wedding Game

Haha...again I post a post-dated blog lol...but I really want to share with all of you my sweet wedding day. 

When our both Mama heard that we were going to have this kind of games, they kept remind us not to play it too harsh, make it fun by not embarrassing Mr.Ng and his friends. They don't like the way people play by asking the groom's wear bra, do some sex position, eat wombs and bla bla bla...n Yes all of us do agree with them so we kept if fun n healthy lol

First of all, lemme introduce our beautiful Bridesmaids and handsome Brothers

(Left to right : Ms.Mega , Ms.Yetty, Ms.Henny,Ms.Indah & Ms Phelini)

(Left to right : Harianto,Ripin,Foo TC, Serpoh & Wita)

Let's start the games

1. Entrance tickets

Groom and his brothers need to buy tickets in order to get into the lift. Mr.Ng said it was like early morning robbery lol due to the expensive tickets ahahahaha...

Entrance Tickets

In the process of negotiation

Finally

2. Yoga and cheerleader's pose (teamwork)

Pose 1: Cheerleader

Pose 1: Teamwork lol

Pose 1: They did it perfectly lol

Pose 2: Yoga

Pose 2: They DID it again haha

Pose 3: Monkey style? lol - FAILED

so they were being punished...

Waxing timeee... :P

3. Passing the facial tissue using their mouth

4. To unlock the second door, the Groom need to pay another angpao lol

5. Itadakimasu....

"Suan, Tian, Ku, La"(Sour, sweet, bitter and spicy)  symbolizes the different sorts of emotions a couple will go through together in their life journey :)

• Appetizer : Sour - Whole lemon
  
  
  
  
  
• Main Course: Spicy - Instant noodle with wasabi 
  

• Dessert : Sweet - Cucumber with condensed milk + honey topping

       

Drink : Bitter - Bitter-gourd + Papaya leaf (healthy lol)

They did Yam-seng before drink the healthy juice lol

Hahah..Priceless lol 

6. Final stage: Life agreement :P

Mr Ng sealed the agreement with his sexy lips mark lol...

And Finally THEY DID IT :)

haha..look at his eyes... something like saying "I did it huh"lol

For all bride-to-be....happy preparation and njoy it...u will miss that moment one day hahaha... :D

Good Luck ~

From Ms to Mrs: Mr.Ng's lil performance

He played and sang this song for me on our wedding day :)

Unfortunately I don't have his video with me huhuh.. ;(

I can't wait

by Runner Runner

The way you curse when we're in traffic
A million flavors of your chapstick
The that way you keep my heart captive
The Journey concert in SG
Remember we sang faithfully?
I still got that old hotel room key

(Chorus)
This is the way I feel
Cause I can't wait for you to be my wife
To live this life, togetherAnd I won't let you go
I need you to know that you are my heart, forever
And on and on and on
The way you like to sing my songs
You always know when something's wrong
The way you say you miss me when I'm gone
The things you do to show you care
You're always down for truth or dare
Freeze this moment let me stop and stare
And nothing before was real
And this is the way I feel

(Chorus)
And I can't wait for you to be my wife
To live this life, together
And I won't let you go
I need you to know that you're my heart, forever
And on and on and on
And we'll go on and on and on

For better or for worse
No matter how it hurts
You've got me to hold your hand
I promise you the world
And in your wedding dress
We'll dance 'til no ones left
Don't wanna blink my eyes, 
don't wanna miss a thing
(Chorus)
I can't wait for you to be my wife
To live this life, together
And I won't let you go
I need you to know that you're my heart, forever
And I can't wait for you to be my wife
To live this life, together
And I won't let you go
I need you to know that you're my heart, forever
And on and on and on
And we'll go on and on and on

♥XoXo♥

Note: I have the video with the moving lyrics without any music. So lemme know if you need it. I can send it to you :)

From Ms to Mrs: Our ROM

We did our ROM (Register of Marriage) on 26 Jan 2013 which is also Mr.Ng's bday :) . Actually we would like to choose 25 Dec as that's our anniversary but heard that the restaurant is usually fully booked and hard to find a solemnizer due to holiday.

I only have like half year to prepare everything since he proposed on May 2012. I choose no bridal and more towards DIY and Budget Bride and We DID it Yeayy... :)

Before we set any budget, we did the market research first. Asking around our family and friends.

Second, went to the wedding fair to do some price comparison.

Lastly, we set own budget on how much we were willing to spend on our wedding day.

For my case, as I mention before I didn't use any bridal for my both wedding banquets. My sweet Mr.Ng bought all my wedding dresses and evening gowns (so sweet of him). Of course, before I make that decision, I had done my homework n discussed with him.

Here's the details of ROM:

1. Venue

For morning solemnize : Outdoor of Peony Jade Clark Quay

ROM banquet             : Peony Jade Clark Quay

reason: we love the foods and the venue, easy to access and have an oriental tastes.

2. - Attire : Own attires

Bride's gown: Vera Wang VW35101

Groom's suit: Made-to-measure in Bangkok

   - Ring : Made-to-measure by my lovely daddy :)

   - Bouquet : DIY by my talented sis-in-law

   - Wedding Accessories : DIY by my talented sister - Beauteous Swarovski

Read more...

3. Solemnizer : Dr Phua Tan Tee

I like the way he solemnised our wedding...I cried a lot...so touched with his words (tho my photographer told me Dr Phua will use the same speech whenever he do a solemnise, but still I like him and super recommended :) ) FYI, you need to make an advanced invitation for him, like 3 mths before your ROM cause he is quite famous in wedding forum as a recommended solemnizer.

4. Witness: Our both father

Because I do admire and respect my father a lot and I want him to involve in my biggest and most important day of my life. Always daddy's little girl :D

5. MUA: Ms. Lizza Octaviana Cheow

She is a lovely and beautiful MUA. I knew her from my sis-in-law. I love her morning make-up, cause the night time a lil bit too aunty (that's what my friends told me huhuhu but still love her make-up)

6. Nail: Ms. Ferty Law

My lovely friend who is also a talented MUA. Feel free to contact her as your MUA or manicurist

7. Photographer: Moments Inc

A super humble and professional photographer. Love to work with him for both our wedding banquets. In future, we will still going to use his services to capture our lil family's potraits. Super recommended photographer :)

8. Master Ceremony  : Adi's good friend (Mr. Ronald Chew and Ms. Denise Aw)

Event Organizer and gangs : My BFF - Ms. Indahwaty Seah (leader), Ms. Widiana Ng (came from HK for us), Ms. Silvia Leonardi (came from Sydney), Ms Evelyn Lim, Ms Jessica Viona (came from Jakarta)

They all are not an expert in this field but surprise surprise....They really knew how to handle everything and did it professionally.... BRAVO :)

9. Accommodation : Swissôtel Merchant Court  

Because it is near to our ROM venue and love the way they upgraded our room and how they celebrated our wedding and Adi's birthday by giving us some surprises.

Enjoy some pictures from our ROM :)

Balooonnnnn... :D

Our ROM's attires

Our Solemnizer : Dr Phua, Our Witnesses : Our Super-Daddy 

Our BIG Family n beloved friends <3 br="">

Our Gangnam dance in the middle of Clark Quay bridge -_-" FUNNN
for video click here

Peony Jade Clark Quay

My BFF : Ms.Indahwaty, Ms Widiana , Ms Silvia n Ms Phelini
(came all the way from far far away to SG just to attend our wedding...touched T^T)

Lil performance from him <3 nbsp="">
click here for video

Lil surprise for him as his bday present :D
for video click here

Surprise him with bday video n cake :D

Love this pic to the most :D

For more pictures

From Ms to Mrs : Our very own Invitation Card

As usual, I have lots and lots of idea while talking about designing Wedding Invitation Card.

I did browse a lot... took this and that ideas...keypoh girl

Who don't want to have the most elegant yet the best Wedding Invitation Card? But girls, be realistic, it's only an announcement card, and think about it, "do we really need to spend that much just for the invitation card?" Remember, they will all end up in the rubbish bin from the cheapest invitation card to the most expensive invitation card. So does it worth? If yes, then go ahead. If not, do something with it.

Always remember : Marriage is much more important than wedding :)

Me like other bride-to-be always thinking of having the best, the most romantic n the most unforgettable wedding, so I must do the best while preparing it. Until my ex-bf (now my husband) showed me this... (again I'm not Muslim but yes I do agree with these sentences)

From that onwards, I always try to think twice while deciding anything... money n budget will be my first priority. I also heard from my HongKong friend that they have Wedding Loan over there. Means if you want to get married and short of money, you can take the loan from the bank or other institution. CRAZY?!? NO...IT'S REAL...

Just because of wanting a grand wedding, then take loan... so how about after wedding life - marriage life- ?!? *FAINT***

I think I talk to much, so lets move back to our main topic. Okay first my idea is having a rounded cheese wedding invitation card with 2 mouses , because both of us like cheese,yellow colour and we are rat in Chinese Zodiac. But after some discussion with the printing agent, I changed my mind and end up I just did a very simple one but yet it really reflects who we really are. I really satisfied with the result. Cause whenever my friends received the invitation card, the first thing come to their mouth is : "so cute and this is just so youuu"  ( Hehe...we did it...)

Here's some description: 

1. The boy is Adi n girl is me (of course -_-")

2. Pink Love Tree - We are building our own Love Family Tree with love color (pink as our background colour)

3. 2 little mice - that's us

4. Yellow border - We both love yellow colours

Inside the invitation cards, we have all the wedding details in 3 languages: English, Bahasa Indonesia and Chinese lol...

I think everyone will wondering why we put our degree title in the invitation card...well..it is a very common in Indonesia and parents are proud of their children who can achieve or get that degree title so in order to "show-off" to their friends and fellas :)

Draft Invitation card

Our very own invitation card :)