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Thursday, January 31, 2013

From Ms to Mrs : My Customised Wedding Ring and Wedding Ring Car

My Singapore Wedding was over... and we are looking forward for our Medan Grand Wedding lol...

Feel so blessed as I have so many talented family member who willingly to help and contribute their talents on my BIG DAY. 
  • My Wedding Rings which is customised and made by my beloved papa ( will post the details later)
  • My Wedding Ring Car which is also customised and made by my beloved and chubby big brother ( pls let me know if you are keen to order one for your wedding)
When he showing off his ring

Customised Wedding Ring + Wedding Ring Car
    Handmade Sunflower Wedding Bouquet
  • My Sunflower Wedding Bouquet made by my pretty sis-in-law
    My Wedding accessories
    All photos are credited to Moments Inc (Mr.Ferdy) ( A very humble friendly yet professional photographer). SUPER RECOMMENDED. 

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Thursday, January 17, 2013

From Ms to Mrs: 10 Foods to AVOID before the BIG Day

10 Foods to avoid before the wedding so you won't be a bloated bride:

  1. Beans
  2. Artificial sweetener ( no more candiesss)
  3. Junk food ( hahaha... I just had my KFC last two night, McMuffin as my breakfast today- BIG day is within one week lol)
  4. Alcohol ( Hen's party on the night before BIG day...OMG)
  5. Cruciferous Vegetables ( just knew it...)
  6. Salty foods 
  7. Carbonated beverages (no more bubble milktea, no more kopi peng, no more coke...bla bla bla...)
  8. Dairy ( Is it???)
  9. Chewing gum ( yeay..Singapore banned chewing gum so lucky me :)
  10. Gluten (Aiyoo...)
Conclusion....wanna looks pretty down the aisle then..must DIETTTTT 
pssttt... haven't started mine yet, it's due on next week.. OMG ~nightmareeee....

Sharing : Korean Plastic Surgery

OMG...this is awesome..worth to share...

Me myself also had my double eyelid as well... so nothing to be ashamed of hehe... ( very normal if every girls want to looks good n beautiful yeay :P )
Anyway doesn't have any intention but just admire the good of workmanship from these doctors...
Nowadays, for beauty...nothing is impossible

 I don’t even believe this.. 


Tuesday, January 15, 2013

My Day: Oh..My Indonesia >.<

Indonesia, my unique lovely country...

First there was a dangdut singer Rhoma Irama elects himself as a 2014 presidential candidate. And now there's another joker, Farhat Abbas a lawyer who also elects himself as a 2014 presidential candidate. He has a BIG ambitions, BIG bullshits, BIG mouth, BIG intentions to run with the aim of fixing Indonesia within a very short period. ( woohooo...BIG applause for him)

Yeah, he has aimed and dreamed of being a candidate since college and now he is using "Aku Indonesia" as his campaign slogan.

Points about him:
  • "Aku Indonesia" - Using "Aku" instead of "Saya", means he wants to show off his power. "Aku" is used to indicate a higher status than the speaker or at least the equivalent of one to talk to, "Aku" is more egalitarian than "Saya". source
  • He has more than one wives and always being gossiped to have mistress ( not a faithful husband so how can he handle a country)
  • Only know how to spread hatred on twitter. (Be realistic bro, using scapegoat to make yourself looks better is just a lame tactics). 
  • Keep busying himself tweeting every hours, every minutes and sometimes every seconds (doesn't he need to work?) @farhatabbaslaw ( go and check it out...will bring a lot of jokes of the day to you :)
  • Using inappropriate wordings on his twitter
  • A very lame seeker attention  
  • Super in-love with Jokowi and Ahok ( always tweets about them) ~love in the air..wooohooo...
  • Sumpah pocong is his fav. 
Anyway, good to know that such person exist in my country... he really knows how to entertain people. I know nothing about politics, but he make me want to know more about my country politics haha...and one reason why I follow his twitter because his tweets real damn entertain. LOL
When a great leader do truly great, they wont say it out loud .Only unintelligent people always look for a scapegoat :D 


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My Day: 4D4N Romantic Bali for my Bday 2012

Yay... finally I can feel the Bali breeze... shame on me...never went to Bali on this age before, some more I'm a Indonesian ;(
We bought the tickets early and planned them later...
Day 1 ( SIN-DPS)
Stay: Everyday Smart Hotel (Kuta)
Day2 (DPS)
Brunch : Kopitiam (Hawker) near Uluwatu
Enjoy : Uluwatu, Garuda Wisnu Kencana (GWK)
Dinner : Jimbaran
Stay: Everyday Smart Hotel
Tari Barong @GWK
Candle lite dinner @ Menega Jimbaran
Day3 (DPS)
Brunch : Ayam Betutu Gilimanuk
Enjoy : Taman Ayun, Bedugul ( Pura Ulundanu + Brantan Lake), Twin Lake View, Tanah Lot, Kecak dance in Ubud
Dinner : Pork Rib’s dinner @ Naughty Nuri
Stay : Bliss Spa Ubud
@Tanah Lot
Kecak Dance

Yeah...Notti Nuri Yummmyyy

The history of Naughty Nuri
Day4 (DPS)
Brunch : Bliss Spa Ubud
Our lovely breakfast @ Bliss Spa Villa Ubud
Enjoy: Tampak siring ( Tirta Empul), Kintamani Volcano, Ubud Kingdom
Lunch: One of the restaurant in Kintamani Volcano
@Kintamani Volcano
My first tatoooo :P @ Kintamani ( I had my dolphin tattoo as well)
Shopping: Sukwati - art markets
Relax : SPA
Honeymooner package Spa
Dinner : Char grilled corn-on-the-cob + Indonesia chocolate cheese pancake (Martabak manis)

Day5 (DPS-SIN)
Brunch : Bliss Spa Ubud
Enjoy : Watersport Rafting
Shopping : Pasar Ubud
Lunch : Babi Gulung (Ibu Oka)
Airport - Welcome back to Singapore


Sharing : This is what I call True love :D

Age 104 old man and his age 100 wife, they are poor, they have been married for 81 years and they never had a group photo. When the old lady dress up the wedding dress, old man was so happy to hug his wife, and said his wife is so beautiful. 

From Ms to Mrs: Wedding Gift and Thank You Card

My lovely Wedding gift from Beauteous Swarovski
All my wedding gifts I get them from Beauteous Swarovski. We have Swarovski mobile accessories, Swarovski pendants etc etc...its all about Swarovski... :D

Pack in a nice jewellery pockets and tie it up with my thank you card... yay... I just love them

Customized Thank You card
While for my thank you card... I have customized them myself... more details here

Friday, January 11, 2013

MyDay : Lunch @ Dining Hall Buddha Tooth Relics Temple - Chinatown

Thanks to Wenny who introduced me this makan place... 100% vegetarian

It's on basement level, so you need to stairs one level down. You can either choose their a la-carte special dish (everyday has its own speciality) or either you choose from their ready cooked vege. The unique of it that there's no cash register, so you just put your money on the donation box there. (Usually they charge SGD3 for 3vege dishes). If you don't have any small notes, you can ask them to give you changes. .

I never try their a la-carte special so I have no idea how much is it. This makan place is manage by the temple itself, so I think all the helpers there are volunteer :)

I love the environment there...so peaceful... absolutely will come back again

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

From Ms to Mrs : Do you tell and share everything to your HTB?!?

Another HOT topic in wedding forum...
Bride-to-be always asking opinions should or should not tell / share everything with your Husband-to-be (HTB) especially regards of money...money...money...

I've got so many pros and cons from this wedding forum

Some of them only share how much they earn but not what they have in their own accounts
For us, we have joint accounts, we know how much we earns but we never ask how much do we have in our own bank accounts  ( we need our own space and privacyyyyyy)

It doesn't mean that we do not trust each other. But girls, "future is uncertain", we cannot rely 100% on him and so do him. Prevention is always better than sorry.

After reading so many divorce cases, affairs bla bla bla...they are sometimes really freak me out... seems like growing old together love story is really a fairytale?!? But again Thanks God I have a harmony yet romantic growing old together story family.

Before I raised this issue up, I have discussed this with lots of people (either old or young) and all of them gave me same answer- always have my own spare money to keep for my own good sake.

This is my humble opinion...no offence and feel free to share your thoughts :)

From Ms to Mrs: Wedding speech

Headacheeeee.... another BIG pressure asking me to give a speech on my wed day...HELP!!!
Luckily, I have my Ladyboss, her daughter and my cute yet kindhearted colleague (who also my ladyboss sister) help me to overcome this...they taught me what to say n what you should NOT say it out loud lol...  Thanks a lot... :)

Sharing : Carry me until we are old...

On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and shy. I was a strong and happy bridegroom. 

This was the scene of ten years ago. The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water. We had a kid, I went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were steadily increasing, the affections between us seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school. Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was more likely to be affected by unpredictable changes. 

Dew came into my life. It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment I bought for her. Dew said, "You are the kind of man who best draws girl's eyeballs." Her words suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we just married, my wife said "Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls." Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn't help doing so. 

I moved Dew's hands aside and said, "You go to select some furniture, O.K.? I've got something to do in the company." Obviously she was unhappy, because I had promised her to go and see with her. At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something impossible to me. However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt. Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we watched TV together or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's body. This was the means of my entertainment. 

One day I said to her in a slight joking way. "Suppose we divorce, what will you do?" She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. Apparently she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I couldn't imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious. 

When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide something while talking with her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes. 

Once again, Dew said to me. "He Ning, divorce her, O.K.?" Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more. 

When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. "I've got something to tell you". She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want to divorce. I raised the serious topic calmly. She didn't seem to be much annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, "Why?" I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer turned her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me. "You are not a man!" At that night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew. 

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The woman who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But I could not take back what I had said. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer. 

A late night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I fell asleep fast. When I woke up, I found she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again. She brought up her divorce conditions. She didn't want anything from me, but I was supposed to give her one month's time before divorce, and in the month's time we must live as normal life as possible. Her reason was simple. Our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she didn't want him to see our marriage broken. She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, "He Ning, do you still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day?" This question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I nodded and said, "I remember." "You carried me in your arms." She continued, "So, I have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the door every morning." I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished to end her marriage with a romantic form. 

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. "No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the result of divorce." She said scornfully. Her words more or less made me feel uncomfortable. 

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried her out for the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms.  

She closed her eyes and said softly. "Let us start from today, don't tell our son." I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for bus, I drove to office. 

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a long time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles on her face. 

On the third day, she whispered to me, "The outside garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass there." 

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The visualization of Dew became vaguer.  

On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, where she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this. I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. 

I said to her, "It seems not difficult to carry you now." She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a few but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, "All my dresses have grown fatter." I smiled. But I suddenly realised that it was because she was thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger. I knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head. Our son came in at the moment. "Dad, it's time to carry mum out." He said. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part of his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.  

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. She said, "Actually I hope you will hold me in your arms until we are old." I held her tightly and said, "Both you and I didn't notice that our life was lack of such intimacy.  

I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door. I said to her, "Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious." She looked at me, astonished. Then she touched my forehead, "You got no fever." I moved her hand off my head. "Sorry, Dew. I can only say sorry to you. 

I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say sorry to you.  

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into cry. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.  

When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me to write the greeting words on the card. I smiled and wrote. "I'll carry you out every morning until we are old."

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